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Roommate Rants 10w
I posted on here with the long list of stuff that my friend did during a vacation that pissed me off. I wanted to mention that I’ve gone to Japan with her and she didn’t bother to learn/follow customs despite “loving Japan”. Like talking loud on the train
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Anonymous 10w

I always wanted to go so I really studied and learned phrases. But then I had to basically babysit her on the trip. Mind you we were in a tour group, a tour group we’ve both been in for years and have gone on multiple trips with and I had to be her personal chaperone.

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Anonymous 10w

I’m gonna be honest here: this is starting to feel like you’re just dumping all the stuff this girl has done with little to no indication that you are even planning to cut her off. I get this is a rant page but it’s really getting to the point where this isn’t healthy. I really hope that you are taking care of this and yourself behind the scenes and that this is the remnants of your frustrations with her but from our perspective it’s becoming a bit much.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

I should add. I understand if maybe she didn’t learn the customs, but it was the fact that she leaned on me in the entire trip for any sort of translation, talking to people, and I would have to remind her in like temples and trains to not be loud the entire trip.

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Anonymous replying to -> amethyst_popping_bottles 10w

I’m not gonna lie. I only posted this because she texted me out of nowhere because I haven’t blocked her yet, I’m trying to figure out the actual way to go about cutting her off without being a bitch and she was texting me something about Japan and how I’m always her adult. I forgot that part in the story I thought I put that in the beginning.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

Like I had not cared about this, but then got a text this weekend with her saying all the times that I’m her adult. So it’s at like the forefront of my mind. Like I wasn’t gonna block her or anything because I wanted to still be nice, but she’s now texting me this shit so I’m trying to find a way to just not be a bitch when I tell her. She does 100% notice I’ve pulled back from her the last few weeks

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

Also, when I say I’m trying to find a way to not be a bitch, I mean, I basically had to say it like I’m talking to a toddler whose dog died because I can never have a serious conversation with her without her crying if she THINKS shes wrong

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

Well the fact that she’s calling you “her adult” means she knows full well what she is doing and doesn’t care. I get you’re trying to be nice here but you need to express that you are not gonna babysit her anymore on outings and if she tries to make you her “adult” again she is blocked and out of your life. I get it’s not nice but nice is what she’s counting on to continue to use you to evade basic responsibility and accountability.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

She cries to avoid responsibility. Tell her to keep her crocodile tears to herself if she doesn’t want the relationship to end then and there

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