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How do you even deal with a friend’s partner moving in? I don’t mind but think it’s unfair she didn’t tell me before and like they think taking out the trash once is from both of them when like there’s two of you so you should each have a turn
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Anonymous 3w

First of all, has the new tenant even been approved by the landlord?

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Anonymous replying to -> amethyst_popping_bottles 3w

…nope. They told me it was temporary but it’s been over a month, so a permanent “guest.”

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Figured as much. You hold all the power here because you have the ability to report this to the landlord whenever you want. If she wanted this to be permanent she should’ve gone through the proper channels.

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Anonymous replying to -> amethyst_popping_bottles 3w

For sure but my roommate is also a friend and I’d feel awful. The girlfriend herself isn’t a problem but there’s twice as many things and I feel like they aren’t contributing as much as they should be, even though I spoke to them about it. None of our other roommates have an issue so it makes me sound problematic

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Is she really a friend if she doesn’t even give you a head’s up that she’s moving her partner in let alone ASK? Honestly I wonder if the others were asked and that’s why they’re cool with it.

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Anonymous replying to -> amethyst_popping_bottles 3w

Valid I’ll probably have to talk to her again

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

I’d ask the others if they were informed. Get all the information cause if I’m right you need to ask her why you were the only one not asked about this.

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