100% crossing boundaries you barely even know your roommate, let alone their friend.

847

My roommate had sex in my bed when I was gone, like why??

607

Not even gonna lie, my roommate did this to our other roommate…

102

Isn’t that common sense? Why the hell would someone do that?

94

Omg that friend could have herpes or could we masturbated on your bed on put some type of curse on it

77

that’s crazy. when i had a sleepover and my roommate was gone, i slept in her bed and my friend slept in mine. that was our mutual agreement.

53

That wouldn’t even be an option if I had someone sleeping over what the hell 😭 either we’re both in my bed or somebody is on the floor

43

I KNOW WHO IT WAS. THEY FUCKED IN IT TOO.

41

One time I had a friend who couldn’t get an uber let them stay in my roommates bed while they were gone. I texted them and confessed immediately before they got home I felt so bad 😭 I washed their sheets and was like I totally agree this shouldn’t have happened I just didn’t know what else to do bc I couldn’t kick this person out on the street, I felt responsible. She was SO mad and I totally took it. Now reading these comments I’m like WTF DO YOU MEAN SEGGS WAS HAPPENING WHAT

33

My roommate looked up my meds while I was gone and when they couldn’t figure out what one of them was they told me and asked about them

26

This is exactly why I always locked my door and put a hex bag above my door and an unwelcome rug on the floor when I went home for the weekend or holidays.

25

my mom stayed over in my dorm for a night for some reason, and i asked my roommate if my mom could sleep in her bed. my roommate said yes, and so i put my own sheets on & my own pillows. tbh i would’ve done the same for her. i feel like if you ask, and you and your roommate are close like that, then it’s not a huge deal

21

Set boundaries immediately or they’re gonna keep doing it you’ll build resentment and it won’t work out. You’re living with this person for an entire year. Say something as soon as you can.

20

Put that fucker down

19

don’t people have their own fucking beds?

19

hello? the way I would throw hands on my roommate if they did any of the shit y’all are saying in the comments cs HELL NO

19

Only if you said it was ok and if it’s ur roommates sheets

16

Thank god I commute I’d go actually batshit

14

Yeah this is creepy as fuck. Because what are the motives behind this? Like I’m genuinely struggling to understand why

13

You should fuck the roommates mom

12

My roommate and I ask at least an hour in advance and guests use the rug…. That’s crazy tho

11

Happened to me, told her either get beat tf up or leave, ain’t no other discussion need to be had

9

Yea no that’s 100% insane you’re totally in the right for feeling violated by that what the hell😭 Who on earth would think that’s a good idea?????

9

you have a roommate contract that if they break you can report

9

This just happened this weekend! Found a condom in my garbage bin with no bag and shit on my couch!

9

omg how did u find out??? or did they just tell u after casually??

8

I had this happen to me once but the girl who slept in my bed was sorta my friend and I lowkey knew her better than I did my roommate so I was like sure lolll

6

How is this not obvious, jeez common sense is dead

6

Why do they want to that’s so weird

6

that's genuinely nuts, don't let anyone gaslight you

6

Better tell ur RA

6

All the more reasons i love my single

6

Yes 100%

5

I'm sorry what???????????

5

Overstepping

5

absolutely!! i’ve gotten close w my roommate but i would never just let someone use her bed without asking, if i even ask at all rather than just make other plans and if she offers then okay

5

This is a cannon event

4

CRAZY AS FUCK

4

Why was this even a debate wdymmmm

4

Someone went viral over this one post

4

Yes

4

I had a friend over one time when my roommate was gone and I literally had an air mattress for her but when I woke up I found her sleeping in my roommates bed I was so pissed at her and I was too embarrassed by it to even tell my roommate

4

oh fuck no

4

Nah I’d be a Karen and get my ra involved fuck that at least get an air mattress

4

i think it's crazy unless it was like an accident or one time thing like someone got too drunk but if it's on purpose sober that's js weird

3

Period crazyyyy

2

so why did you literally steal my story from this weekend… who are you.

1

Not me LOL she slept in my bed (just sad I wasn’t there for it… 😖)

-6

I see no problem but ok

-6

lowk i let all my friends sleep in my roommates bed when shes not there tf is she gonna do and wheres my friend supposed to sleep thats what the bed is for ok thx bye

-8

No it just means they’re warming it up for you before you get back :)

-9

grow a pair

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