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My housemates are making me have the worst anxiety. I invited them to live with me we all didn’t know each other, then bc I’m always out and busy with things they all got really close, have there own gc and purposely leave me out and blame me for everyth
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Anonymous 1d

- keep in mind I have also been super nice about things but I just hate that no matter how hard I try and when I do communicate it always goes back to the same thing it’s like they bond over hating me I swear. There’s 2 girls who purposely play both sides and lie, it’s always so tense and ik I don’t need to focus on it but it’s so hard not too when it’s obvious they also have one girl texting for all of them. It really bothers me. I have tried taking in person/ calling but they don’t talk to me

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Anonymous 18h

To be completely honest they are most likely are not going to change or help in anyway to make you feel comfortable in your own home, people like that just want to blame anyone for their problems because they’re so focused on the fact that “other people aren’t like them” please confide in your boyfriend because it will eat you alive until eventually it be a a way worse situation for you.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Unless it’s text or if they are all together

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 21h

people like that r looking for a scapegoat for their own bad habits. there’s rlly no winning except leaving, they could literally trash the place when ur not home and still find a way to blame you.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 19h

I just wish they weren’t so obsessed with me it’s at the point I’m vomiting everyday of stress and starting to put some of my stress on my boyfriend

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