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For anyone dealing with a person who is defensive to criticism, passive-aggressive, does not create/respect boundaries, gets upset when you point out their behavior, seeks constant validation. You might be dealing with a Vulnerable Narcissist, I know I am
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Anonymous 24w

It’s not so much advice as it is an awareness thing. Context my roomate of 1 year has been weird and the straw that broke the camels back happened yesterday. I just found out the term while I was researching

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Anonymous 24w

100%

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Anonymous 24w

Any advice?

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Anonymous 24w

Oh yea this person ended up stealing my shit throughout the semester and vandalized my personal clothing

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Anonymous 11w

Mine was exactly like this and AWFUL. She was the type to complain behind me and my roommates back about stuff and go to the BUILDING DIRECTOR and report us for it without even talking to us about it first all because she couldn’t handle the slightest confrontation.

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Anonymous 24w

My last roommate was like this. He would demean and try to embarrass me in front of others. He’d get mad at me addressing anything, ignored me, and then would tell other people he had issues with me. Always needed 100% attention but never gave me the same, didn’t respect boundaries, said my “bad work ethic” will get me fired at my new job soon after I excitedly told him I got it, but remains unemployed/wanted to live with me in an apartment in a more pricey area and ONLY that area, nowhere else.

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