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Sorry for the long text ss but there’s a lot of context and I need advice 😭
11 upvotes, 8 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in Roommate Rants. "Sorry for the long text ss but there’s a lot of context and I need advice 😭"
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Anonymous 2w

he's 6 and as someone w a autistic 22 y/o brother they cannot control that. they CANNOT do anything about that. they've probably attempted to and just wasn't able to, if you really want it to stop its genuinely just norms to do communication.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

This isn't me trying to be insensitive but I feel when it comes to sharing a living space it's different. Especially after already being notified by the complex itself, they should atleast try bc giving up entirely doesn't help either. 12+ hours just on average every single day of yelling is exhausting to hear. It's a touchy subject but ultimately it's our living space too. I understand having a disability but that doesn't excuse the responsibility of being a parent

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Definitely try to get in touch with someone in your building about the noise even if you tried in the past do it again. I know it’s intimidating but try talking to the parents about it. I have multiple autistic people in my family and honestly that’s on the parents for not properly dealing with their own child. You have every right to be annoyed and honestly If nothing is done about it I’d call the cops and just file a noise complaint.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

tbh if u had mentioned they were already notified + u said u have vids/proof, i didnt say it excuses it tho i said they've probably attempted. like it genuinely takes therapy as well to get some kids right and there's just a possibility they can't afford that, just being considerate in another light. u aren't being insensitive nor did i say that

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

I did say it, it’s in the ss of the post lol. And respectfully, both the area and complex I’m in is on the pricey side. I do feel that if you can afford rent here therapy is definitely in price range considering the income qualifications to be approved for a lease

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

I’m thinking of getting in touch with the people next to them and asking if they’re being affected as well. Bc my other main concern is neglect tbh. Like I’m worried the kid is being left home alone for extremely long periods of time bc that’s how little I hear from the parents. Idk the full situation but given his age range and circumstance, supervision seems like a basic need

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

i think u misread bc i reread and no? u only stated the vids/proof part and u submitted noise complaints, i stated that. not that the complex themselves had talked to them

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Where do think the noise complaints get sent to tho? The apartment complex😭

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