Roommate Rants on Sidechat | It sucks being roommates with someone who was your friend, but it turned out they weren’t. Now I’ve been in the dorm with a person for a year, who didn’t even like me. It makes me question if I they considered me a friend in the first place

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Roommate Rants 3w

It sucks being roommates with someone who was your friend, but it turned out they weren’t. Now I’ve been in the dorm with a person for a year, who didn’t even like me. It makes me question if I they considered me a friend in the first place

Anonymous 3w

I’m sorry. Unfortunately, freshman year friends aren’t really life long friends. You’re (possibly) going to cycle through a few groups before finding your people in college. And 9 times out of 10, freshman roommates never work out. Don’t feel discouraged! It’s their loss.

Anonymous 3w

I’m sorry, I just need to rant. I’m just having a hard time in college with making friends and actually feeling like I’m valued in the friendship.

Anonymous 3w

Same here but living with two girls for two years. If I don’t say anything, they won’t either. I used to say hi but never got a response so why bother?

Anonymous 3w

Im literally going through this it’ll all work out I promise

Anonymous 2w

Girl I went through this last summer- it really sucks- but don’t write the letter just move out! She knows what she’s done- she’ll sit in the feeling once you move out!

Anonymous

#1 3w

Thank you I appreciate it, but it honestly sucks really bad. It’s my sophomore year, I had a bad experience with my freshman year roommate. She thought she was my mom and could boss me around, and I didn’t like that. Now I have this friend who was with me during that hard time, and I genuinely considered her a close friend, and it hurts. It’s just like I never know if I have true friends. Or the friends that I do have it just feels like I’m a back up option.

Anonymous

#2 3w

I can completely understand, this is my current situation. I used to speak and get ignored so I stopped. It just sucks. I hope it gets better for you next year!

Anonymous

OP 3w

I hope so, im stuck with the same girls again. I’m hoping things just smooth over the summer then it won’t be so bad next year. I also weighed out options to stay or get a new room and I’m scared to get worse ones, so I’m just tolerating this shit for the time being. I’m hoping to make more friends that respect me and genuinely enjoy my company.

Anonymous

OP 3w

Same here, it sucks, it’ll get better, we gotta keep our heads up