You can try all you want to communicate gently, but you’re never really sure how someone will take something. I always say it’s best to talk face to face given the opportunity. Communicate early about your boundaries. You’re lucky if you live in a dorm since your RA will help with anything that’s too crazy like smoking, extended guests, etc.

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try to be lenient at first, everyone makes mistakes so don’t hold grudges… after the third or fourth time that’s when you bring it up if it really becomes a problem. try to give them a chance at first and then if that doesn’t work then you can fight about it😭

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pick someone you like

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