They learned that my abusive ex basically Pavloved me into salivating when I heard a snap in order to give him head. They thought it was funny to snap around me when they thought I was annoying. But SURE…I’M the one who cross boundaries (I tickled them)
Like. I tickled them, they said stop. And then multiple days or even weeks later I did it again. They got mad. But snapping every other day and making me relive trauma over and over is ok…