Roommate Rants on Sidechat | lowk concerned abt my roommate bc she has been steadily spiraling over time. her side of the room is getting messier and not just cluttered but food messy. she sleeps all day and barely goes to classes bc she's up all night. when should i say smt..?

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Roommate Rants 3w

lowk concerned abt my roommate bc she has been steadily spiraling over time. her side of the room is getting messier and not just cluttered but food messy. she sleeps all day and barely goes to classes bc she's up all night. when should i say smt..?

Anonymous 3w

you should try to gently let her know you’ve noticed these things and ask her if she’s alright. maybe she is stuck in a slump and getting it off her chest might help. sorry :(

Anonymous

#2 3w

^^ tbh you don’t even have to say the things you’ve noticed, just check up on her like a simple “hey, how have you been lately” / “hey, is everything okay?”

Anonymous

#3 3w

reason being that sometimes when people get depressed they can be very defensive, and feel like you’re insulting them by stating stuff like “i noticed ur side of the room has been getting messier” etc

Anonymous

#3 3w

great point