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Roommate Rants 10w
I feel like my roommate doesn’t like me so I’m trying to get on her good side but she hangs out with her outside friends more than me and everyone looks so close to their roommates I feel left out
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Anonymous 10w

Being close friends with your roommate is pretty rare after the honeymoon period

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Anonymous 10w

Yeah don’t worry you ain’t missing out because I thought one of my roommates was like my bestie but she lies straight to my face every day so uh it’s ok to not be friends

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

We weren’t even close day 1

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

Yeah it might look like everyone else is great friends with their roommates, but it likely won’t last

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

But I see where you’re coming from, my comment was not advice just an observation. For actual advice: real friendships are usually slow to build. Do kind things for them, ask about their day; just small things that will add up. We also don’t know what they’re really thinking. They might be just super anxious, they could be oblivious, they might just be a shitty person. Remember that some people aren’t destined to be friends, and that’s okay. But don’t get discouraged! Stay confident! U got this!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

imo it’s better to be civil with them but not be their best friend, it can end up ruining friendships.

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