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i have my boyfriend over twice a week ish in my own room and she still gets mad about it. why????
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Anonymous 21h

Bc you’re reminding her that she’s single

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Anonymous 20h

is it twice a week for a few hours or is he staying overnight multiple times a week during the week nights. i’ve definitely seen people in both situations where their roomate is just being a dick but also people who are just bringing their partners over all the time to the point where they’re at the appartment almost as much as they’re not and it encroaches on other peoples living space

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Anonymous 19h

as a roommate that loves her roommate but brings her boyfriend over a lot and has him stay over its maybe because you guys may be TOO LOUD sometimes and waking her up at night or idk maybe she misses you depends your relationship with your roommate.

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Anonymous 11h

Try talking to her about it: hey, I’ve noticed it upsets you when my boyfriend comes over. Can you please be specific about what issues this causes so we can work together to create a solution? Chances are, there is no issue so it’s kind of calling her out

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 19h

he doesn’t like staying over because of her, so he usually just comes over for a few hours to watch a show or hang out in my room

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

then she probably sucks and i’m very sorry for your situation

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

i had a similar thing with my girlfriends roommate. i went to school further away so id come up for a weekend every like couple weeks and she didn’t let me come up on valentine’s day and totally ruined my girlfriends plans for us because she wanted to “study for a test” as if there aren’t whole ass study halls for that

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