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Roommate Rants 2w
I feel like I’m trapped in a friendship and idk what to do. Like I care for this person yes, but they told me they liked me and then they loved me. It makes me uncomfortable, there’s an uncomfortable age gap (I’m older), and I just don’t want…
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Anonymous 2w

…this situation. They’re a freshman and I’m a senior, they’re 17. I’m friends with them bc of my friend group. I told them that we shouldn’t hang out for a while, I don’t want you over, etc. He had a bit of a breakdown begging me to not “take away the closest friend he’s ever had” and such, so much so that I went to get him bc I genuinely thought he was going to do something stupid. I feel trapped, I don’t want this situation. He’s a good kid and all but I don’t want this. I have told him…

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

…many times that I don’t want people too close to me, and I’ve told him he’s at my apartment way too much for comfort (he claims it’s to take care of me bc I’ve gotten sick/had debilitating migraines but he’s there way more than that). I’ve told him before that I have a hard time telling people to leave and he can’t be here often and yet he’s here. Idk, I don’t want to be an ass and hurt this poor kid, he’s got a lot going on, but I have had so much happening this semester I don’t need this too

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

thats UR apartment and ur boundaries are getting pushed on. u have a hard time telling ppl to leave but u need to be able to. unsure if you're a girl but idk why you're letting a 17 y/o male beg u? hes too old for that and ur even OLDER than that. at the rate u seem u have it at, i'd just cut him off so he can figure it out himself because he's doing tm.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

I tell him I don’t want him here and he has a break down and none of the others can step in and I feel fucking miserable. I’m a female yes, and I keep trying to cut him out of my life but thanks to the others and then the breakdowns i feel like I can’t

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