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Roommate Rants 11h
My roommate is incredibly passive aggressive and hostile. I feel unwelcome and constantly on edge, and they haven’t talked to me since week one. I’m not sure how to approach this as they technically haven’t done anything wrong 😭
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Anonymous 11h

Not talking can make dorm life uncomfortable. Do they just coexist or are they bullying you like you could tell the ra?

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Anonymous 11h

maybe they just don’t wanna talk, they haven’t done anything so just leave it. don’t make a problem out of nothing by being pick me

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10h

I agree some people just don’t want to talk, but they’re not being a pick me 😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 9h

I agree too! I just coexist with my roommate which is why I asked. We’re not super compatible as friends, so I just use the apartment as a place to cook and sleep, play the occasional cleaning fairy, while staying productive everywhere else. I gave up trying to communicate with them and found peace elsewhere 🤗 sometimes it’s better that way

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8h

It’s a little more awkward to live in a dorm with a roommate who doesn’t speak, but in an apartment it shouldn’t be problematic. Like in a dorm you always see them, so its good to at least be cordial and have basic small talk. In an apt, I don’t think it’s that bad

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