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Had a roommate meeting because I pointed out some things I was not comfortable with from the new roommate and she said she had “things she’d been quiet about also” in response. 🫠
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Anonymous 1d

You’re doing great by removing communal items from her access (I’m sure she doesn’t contribute either if pattern holds). I’d also recommend using the RA to deal with any future issues if you’re in a dorm or reporting any lease violations of hers if in an apartment. She’s clearly lost any grace she had from you two so let the consequences come.

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Anonymous 1d

BRO SAME

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Anonymous 1d

IM PISSED. bc these are things we’ve been asking her about and now all of a sudden she has these issues when the spotlight is on her

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Anonymous 1d

And then she completely made stuff up or would overegerate her complaints so they could match up to my actual complaint-

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Anonymous 1d

Those complaints would be completely irrelevant to me. Obviously she wasn’t bother enough to say anything before and that’s so childish to have to be on the hot seat to address something you supposedly also had issues with.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

And I just looked at the other roommate and we were both like “where is any of the stuff she’s complaining about?” And then when I remembered another question I texted her later and she yelled at me in text and was all like “that is that. End of discussion” like bro. Ur not my mom why the fuck are you responding like that. Mind u I had just ASKED A QUESTION. It wasn’t even an accusation. I was just curious about something 😭.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Anyways. In retaliation to her tone and invalidating our complaints my roommate and I are keeping the toilet paper and paper towels in our room and bringing it to the bathroom when we need it bc I know for a fact her and her friends have been using it and they refuse to supply any.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

My complaints were about other things also. I’m just so tired and I’m gonna control what I can.

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Anonymous replying to -> amethyst_popping_bottles 1d

Yeah. And I’ve caught her in a lie about it several times now because when she moved in she said she’d supply some. Then after a while we noticed she never brought any to the bathroom when we’d run out. We waited a bit but I asked like a week ago because I decided it was time. And she said she would. But then she left for the weekend and never supplied any. So when I reached out again we planned the meeting and she changed her story to “oh I don’t use them I have wipes” And then after

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

I took the toilet paper, I was up really late in the living area and I saw her come out of her room to use the bathroom. Stop. Then go back to her room to grab her own toilet paper. Which just proved to me again that she has been using it and she lied. (I knew she had to be because we’ve been going through it crazy fast and my roommate and I had discussed about it because we had an issue like this before bc someone was wasting some.)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

I said we’re gonna fill out the official roommate agreement so this stuff is all in a “contract” agreement. I’m just worried because I might be living alone with this other roommate next semester and I don’t wanna deal with that 🫠

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

I’ve made sure to keep discussions about these issues in text or some sort of recorded form so I can pull that up if I ever need to.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

I can’t tell if your saying the roommates complaint or mine. I would like to add some context for the fact that the reason I ended up saying anything is because she had people over every single day and for several days in a row they were laughing and giggling talking very loudly till 4AM and I was trying to study and sleep for midterms.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

So in the end. I’m pretty sure my complaints were more valid and important tbh.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Also for context. There’s three of us. The new roommate has a room just to herself. And we’re pretty sure it’s because she was the “issue” in her last dorm and managed to get accommodations because she can’t share her space.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

I’m a night owl. And I’ll be up till 4AM a lot. But I’m quiet and I go to the living area to finish studying quietly. She had people over and they were being loud. Completely inconsiderate of the other roommate who had to get up in 2 hours.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

No fr. Like ok now ur saying you had issues you were staying quiet about?? Um. Ok I guess? But then she made stuff up on the spot. Or would add extra details that weren’t true. Like buddy. I also live here. I can see the trashcan or the sink. And it’s not how ur describing it.

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