
You’re doing great by removing communal items from her access (I’m sure she doesn’t contribute either if pattern holds). I’d also recommend using the RA to deal with any future issues if you’re in a dorm or reporting any lease violations of hers if in an apartment. She’s clearly lost any grace she had from you two so let the consequences come.
And I just looked at the other roommate and we were both like “where is any of the stuff she’s complaining about?” And then when I remembered another question I texted her later and she yelled at me in text and was all like “that is that. End of discussion” like bro. Ur not my mom why the fuck are you responding like that. Mind u I had just ASKED A QUESTION. It wasn’t even an accusation. I was just curious about something 😭.
Anyways. In retaliation to her tone and invalidating our complaints my roommate and I are keeping the toilet paper and paper towels in our room and bringing it to the bathroom when we need it bc I know for a fact her and her friends have been using it and they refuse to supply any.
Yeah. And I’ve caught her in a lie about it several times now because when she moved in she said she’d supply some. Then after a while we noticed she never brought any to the bathroom when we’d run out. We waited a bit but I asked like a week ago because I decided it was time. And she said she would. But then she left for the weekend and never supplied any. So when I reached out again we planned the meeting and she changed her story to “oh I don’t use them I have wipes” And then after
I took the toilet paper, I was up really late in the living area and I saw her come out of her room to use the bathroom. Stop. Then go back to her room to grab her own toilet paper. Which just proved to me again that she has been using it and she lied. (I knew she had to be because we’ve been going through it crazy fast and my roommate and I had discussed about it because we had an issue like this before bc someone was wasting some.)
I can’t tell if your saying the roommates complaint or mine. I would like to add some context for the fact that the reason I ended up saying anything is because she had people over every single day and for several days in a row they were laughing and giggling talking very loudly till 4AM and I was trying to study and sleep for midterms.