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Roommate Rants 4w
Okay so my roommate she’s been my best friend and we’ve live together years. Out of nowhere she’s been lying about having a job, missing rent, lying about that, hasn’t paid a utility since November, she owes me $1000 now
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Anonymous 4w

I’ve had to get a new job in this time and work double hours. But the thing is I’m a full time student I take 18 credit hours. She isn’t. She doesn’t work, doesn’t go to school, she still goes out with our friend group to the bar every so often she’s gone more then me since I don’t have time to go out right now.

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Anonymous 4w

i had a similar situation where my roomie/bsf would leech off me and avoid me when i asked for her to pay me back for the small amount of things i did ask for payment on and would leave spills and food out to rot until i picked it up and i had to send her a text asking her to start cleaning up and pay me back and now we aren’t friends anymore bc apparently im an evil person? honestly tho if ur friend can’t be a decent person and take criticism abt their actions they aren’t worth being friends w

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

I am so physically stressed out and exhausted and my grades are slipping cus I’m working so much and I can’t just not work we can’t afford this place without me working. But I hate that I’m beginning to resent my friend because she’s such an awful roommate.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Whenever she’s late on rent she turns off her location and just leaves the apartment for days and days and ignores my texts and calls. She said it’s mental health stuff for why she isn’t paying bill but also she won’t talk to me. She won’t have a conversation with me. I haven’t raised my voice once about this. I’ve been trying to be patient but I’m going to lose being on deans list cus of this.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Like I can’t keep this up, it’s so fucking hard trying to work 25 hours a week and take this many classes. I can’t keep doing this and covering bills it’s getting out of hand. And she keeps lying about everything

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

i would tell her ur issues w her, if she doesn’t change then contact the leasing office and see if they can kick her out or u try to move out if possible? if that isn’t possible then i say start giving her the same treatment bc my roomie would use mental health as an excuse but i had jus tried to commit and wasnt treating her how she was. its a way to avoid accountability

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

I’ve also been cleaning up her messes and dealing with it’s been a time the last few months and all of our other friends are on my side about this saying she’s out of line. It’s just so frustrating because it feels like every time she’s smoking or drinking it’s just because she’s been indirectly stealing from me to go out. Plus she’s eating so much of my food it’s such a problem

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

ya my roomie tried to slowly stop chipping in for groceries and was blowing all her money on fast food and weed but still eating my stuff and i got sick of it. imo if they’re willing to treat u like this they aren’t worth being friends w and will never change

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