Anonymous amethyst_popping_bottles 4w

It’s hard cuz we’re friends who just happened to move in together but I keep getting guilt tripped for not wanting to share EVERYTHING so idk if I’m being mean or not I’m not trying to be mean

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Anonymous OP 4w

not everybody wants to share everything and if it’s something super expensive I don’t blame you honestly. You shouldn’t be guilt tripped for that

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Anonymous OP 4w

Honestly this might need to be a conversation with them about why they feel entitled to your stuff, especially if they gatekeep their stuff from you.

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Anonymous #2 4w

Perfectly normal to be upset! It’s your blender so if you don’t want them to use it, that’s a boundary you can set. If you’d rather try to compromise, you could offer to share/collaborate on the drinks you make in the blender so that it’s not used without your supervision but your roommate can still blend things without needing two blenders

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Anonymous #4 4w

No they clean it but they’re also kind of mean to me and take advantage of me and I want to gatekeep my items but I don’t want to come across as mean but I also constantly am guilt tripped so it’s hard

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Anonymous OP 4w

gate keep your items, they are YOUR items that you paid for you can tell them to buy their own. you're also not mean for setting a boundary. if they view it as mean then that's on them

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