Roommate Rants on Sidechat | is it ridiculous to want my roomate and supposed best friend to say hello to me and act like she fucking likes me when she walks in and asks for my help? or is that too much. every day i ask her how she is and she can’t bother asking the question back.

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Roommate Rants 1d

is it ridiculous to want my roomate and supposed best friend to say hello to me and act like she fucking likes me when she walks in and asks for my help? or is that too much. every day i ask her how she is and she can’t bother asking the question back.

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Anonymous 1d

were yall friends before moving in?

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Anonymous 1d

Instead of bottling it up, talk to her. She could 100% be doing this without even realizing. Either way, communicate, it’s important and can help set better grounds for everyone to avoid some sort of massive blow up

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Anonymous 19h

I agree w the comments def talk to her about it. If she already said she’s quiet and it’s not personal then yeah I don’t think it’s like malicious but good to check in again anyway. I’m similar to her in a way bc I’m quiet and don’t rlly talk unless spoken to but I’ll say hi back or have a convo. I won’t be mean to my roommate or if they did something wrong I say something

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Anonymous

#1 1d

lol yes

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Anonymous

OP 1d

aw that sucks. have you talked to her about it?

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Anonymous

#2 1d

she’s said in the past that she’s just wanting to be quiet, and that it’s not personal, but tbh it still grates on my nerves lmfao. we barely see eachother anyways idk why she can’t put on a positive front like i do for her sake ya feel

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Anonymous

OP 1d

I get that, but at the same time you, or she, shouldn’t feel the need to put on a positive front when you don’t feel like it on your own home, with a roommate or not. When she’s home, maybe she just wants to be chill and do her own thing 🤷‍♂️ I really wouldn’t take it too personally

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Anonymous

#2 1d

i feel like there’s a difference here between being chill and being straight up rude and i feel like she’s on the latter half. ofc everyone’s allowed to do what they want in their homes, however, we share a home. i’m still a person that deserves kindness especially from a friend. i want her to treat me the way i treat her

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Anonymous

OP 1d

honestly a “hey! i’m gonna go chill in my room” isn’t that hard to manage especially if yall were friends before. like it can still be quiet for her and friendly for you.

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Anonymous

OP 1d

Yeah, there is a major difference between being rude and just wanting to chill. I’m just trying to picture why someone might be that way, but I do think mentioning it to her would still be helpful and might help her pull out of a bad habit of being unintentionally rude

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