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DO NOT DO NOT DO NOT room with your friends
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Anonymous 5w

I actually realized my friend is actually an asshole 2 weeks in

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Anonymous 5w

me and my hs friend might be the only ppl to come out alive after rooming with each other and not hating each others guts

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Anonymous 5w

I've had this happen both ways: went in friends, came out of it with trauma and the next year went in friends, came out of it as co-maids of honor (in the third girl's wedding)

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Anonymous 5w

Damn that sucks, I’m with 3 of my friends and we’ve only gotten closer

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Anonymous 5w

I disagree, you just need to know their living habits before rooming together

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Anonymous 5w

I AGREE!!!!!! it was not all sunshine and rainbows

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Anonymous 4w

if you start out as random roommates I don’t think this counts but otherwise yes

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Anonymous 5w

i have lived with my best friend since freshman year… no issues…

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Anonymous 4w

i’m rooming with 2 of my friends right now! i think it’s going well! we all get along well and no one’s told me if things are going wrong! so far so good :)

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Anonymous 4w

My roommate was friendly. Didn’t really communicate over the summer much. Came back we were still roommates for a second year, which is going alright. I knew they were on HRT, but I didn’t know they got surgery over the summer (apparently a family died and they got a shit ton of money and could actually afford it) .They didn’t tell me until the first night, cause apparently they wanted to surprise me lol. It’s only half way through our second year as roommates, but we’re much closer now lol

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Anonymous 5w

My roommate became my best friend. I love him

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Anonymous 5w

Did this with my best friend freshman year, came out still as best friends. 8/10 this doesn’t work is because people don’t communicate until it’s too late…

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Anonymous 5w

LOVED living with my friend in the freshman year dorms… apartment living tore us apart 😭

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Anonymous 5w

i started rooming with my friends and we’re only closer now she’s great

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Anonymous 5w

Nah I’m enjoying it

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Anonymous 4w

Lived with my high school friend for 3 years. The first 2 years were fine until we had issues because he fucking pursued 2 of the same women who I already had sexual history with. Dude has no concept of bro code

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Anonymous 4w

I roomed with my friend and it was a great decision. Now she’s one of my best friends. But… we did meet from roommate match and we didn’t get placed together, and we just stayed friends

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Anonymous 4w

That is exactly what I’ve learned

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Anonymous 4w

Uh oh..im planning on rooming with my best friend next year..

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Anonymous 4w

I roomed w 4 friends last year and it was perfect. But I had friends who hate each other now because of roommate drama so there def truth in there

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Anonymous 5w

Or siblings

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Anonymous 5w

Real

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Anonymous 4w

Why

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Anonymous 4w

Anyone who DIDNT know this is just dumb as fuck ngl

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

it be like that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

I don’t want to get a room change because then they a dingle and I get shit

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

i love this for yall

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

i love this

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

no fr like this is the second year rooming with my bestie and every night is a sleepover what’s not to love

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 5w

8/10 times*

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 4w

There's something about moving to apartments that can mess up the dynamic!

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 4w

You’ll be fine. Don’t go into it expecting stress and problems. Just for the love of GOD be clean, they have to look at your space too don’t let it be a mess even if it’s just on your side

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Anonymous replying to -> #20 4w

i’m happy for you

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Anonymous replying to -> #25 4w

thank you :)) i am aware that sometimes things do not work out, but hopefully it’ll go smoothly!

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

Me and roommate who I never met before rooming with them but now we’re friend and also united against our other roommate who’s a bum

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

Same here. I feel like for it to work, you need to have good communication and boundaries

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 4w

Same

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