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My roommate NEVER LEAVES, doesn’t even go to class, yet im the one always cleaning because she’s just in bed all day 🤗 IM GOING FUCKING INSANE
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Anonymous 12h

have you spoken to / checked up on her. she could be going through a depressive episode. it’s frustrating for sure, but it could be something more serious than laziness

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Anonymous 11h

I had a roommate like this and literally no matter what I did, said, yelled she never changed and she did have some mental illness which I respected but at a certain point you can’t be their care giver anymore. My recommendation is get her a boyfriend that cleans for her lol that’s what I did

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Anonymous 8h

as someone who experienced the same thing last year with mine, trust me you gotta put ur foot down. i tried being nice about it and it got me nowhere. u lowkey have to be stern

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Anonymous 12h

Are u in a dorm or apartment

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Anonymous 3h

Literally my roommate she never leaves, cleans or anything

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Anonymous 4h

OH MY GOD SAME. the past two days has been in bed ALL DAY. only left the room once

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Anonymous 8h

Bruh ts stresses me out

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Anonymous 7m

coming from someone who's been this roommate, it is very very likely she's struggling mentally, so I'd recommend having an RA or other peer advisor reach out to her if your attempts at open but stern communication have failed. Maybe she isn't doing well, but you deserve a better living environment and she needs support and possibly a wakeup call.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12h

ive tried but she won’t say much

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12h

cause thats what i figured aswell, that it could be depression

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12h

dorm

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Anonymous replying to -> blellow_63 11h

this comment makes you sound really mean

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 11h

Have you ever lived with a person like this?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8h

Reach out to your RA with your concern, they might be able to step in and help or give resources

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7h

if she isn’t saying much it’s probably because she’s going through something really shitty right now

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6h

you could also express your concerns to anyone in res life that you know will help you with the situation

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1h

A roommate is not your responsibility.

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