
On the other side of this, when my roommate got a partner they stopped being around completely, not taking care of her cat, or doing their part of the chores. If your relationship has codependency issues where you can’t be home long enough to clean the bathroom or clean ur cat’s litter, the relationship is the issue.
My old roommate was roommates with me and my boyfriend (we had separate rooms and shared a kitchen and living space) and she constantly wanted me to break up with him but behind my back should would talk shit about me and talk him up and make him out to be the best person she’s ever met 😑. Girl just wanted my man so we moved out and will never room with her ever again.