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NEED ADVICE In January, I (M19) Signed a lease with my best friend (M21) starting in the late summer. Since then, we’ve spent a lot of time together the last few months. Last week, he told me he had feelings for me. I’m straight and don’t feel the same.
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Anonymous 25w

You can just be honest and say you don’t swing that way but still value the friendship

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Anonymous 25w

Never hurt to try something once

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Anonymous 25w

I just gasped

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 25w

I have, and I’m just worried about the dynamics of things living together

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 25w

You can always check in and ask how he's doing. Still include him in things so there is some normalcy. If he acts weird then that's on him. I've seen a lot of roommates have crushes and then it turns to a more platonic thing. Weird but it works out

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 25w

Gtfo of here. He literally said he doesn't feel the same.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 25w

This yeah just keep doing things together like before, but still acknowledge the situation The more time you spend tg platonically the more natural it will feel

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 25w

😛

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