Roommate Rants on Sidechat | NEED ADVICE In January, I (M19) Signed a lease with my best friend (M21) starting in the late summer. Since then, we’ve spent a lot of time together the last few months. Last week, he told me he had feelings for me. I’m straight and don’t feel the same.

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Roommate Rants 19h

NEED ADVICE In January, I (M19) Signed a lease with my best friend (M21) starting in the late summer. Since then, we’ve spent a lot of time together the last few months. Last week, he told me he had feelings for me. I’m straight and don’t feel the same.

Anonymous 18h

You can just be honest and say you don’t swing that way but still value the friendship

Anonymous 18h

Never hurt to try something once

Anonymous 16h

I just gasped

Anonymous

#2 18h

I have, and I’m just worried about the dynamics of things living together

Anonymous

OP 16h

You can always check in and ask how he's doing. Still include him in things so there is some normalcy. If he acts weird then that's on him. I've seen a lot of roommates have crushes and then it turns to a more platonic thing. Weird but it works out

Anonymous

#1 11h

Gtfo of here. He literally said he doesn't feel the same.

Anonymous

#4 9h

This yeah just keep doing things together like before, but still acknowledge the situation The more time you spend tg platonically the more natural it will feel

Anonymous

#5 7h

😛