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My roommate won’t ever turn off her tv and keeps the remote in her bed so I can’t turn it down once see is asleep. Idk what to do I have already talked to her about turning it down or off and she just doesn’t listen. It’s about to just get turned off
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Anonymous 1w

me personally have been the other roommate, but only when ive had my own room. talk to her and see if theres not a sleep timer option (there is on roku tv) or in my freshman year, i would watch my shows on my computer on low brightness with my airpods

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Anonymous 1w

Wake her up every night “hey can you turn off the tv” till she gets tired of being woken up

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Thanks, I don’t mind the brightness but she doesnt get that I can’t sleep through the sound. I’ve talked to her in the past but it just doesn’t last more than a day. She refuses to wear headphones which makes it more difficult 😞 I’ll ask about the timer

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

i completely get where ur coming from and honestly its invalidating of her to ignore you, because ive for sure turned down my stuff/worn headphones when im on trips with friends/fam bc i cant fall asleep without sound. im sorry she’s being so stubborn OP, best of luck 🫶🏽

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

also if you have an RA report her if she doesnt respect ur boundaries… it is a legally shared space and she cant dominate it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Update: I talked to her and she blew up and has now turned the tv up more… I have talked to the ra because she is refusing to talk to me and slamming doors she also left a note on my desk saying she has a text on Friday and I am not allowed in the room from 5-8 pm. I will be at sorority formal anyway so this could have just been a conversation… the ra is talking to her this weekend and then next week we are sitting down with the ra to set up a plan of what time the tv needs to be off by

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