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Roommate Rants 20w
got asked to be roommates with so called friends months ago, already have a housing assignment and have had for a month and now they decide that i’m “not a good fit” and are kicking me out to room with their friend. but i’m the immature one for being mad!
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Anonymous 20w

Can they even kick you out if housing assignments are already out?

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Anonymous 19w

I had this happen too. They cannot kick you out. But obviously yes, they can make life hell for you. What’s the room setup? If you have your own room (which I did) I made it very clear that I wasn’t going anywhere. Never spoke to them for the first 3 months, had my friends over, lived in that space. And after a while they got over it. But they only wanted to do that because they wanted another friend to room with them instead

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Anonymous 20w

May I ask why did they say ur not a good fit? Is it ur sleeping schedule or something

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Anonymous replying to -> amethyst_popping_bottles 20w

they can’t technically kick me out, but they can tell me i’m unwanted there and make living with them hell

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20w

Document everything

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20w

If they want to live with their friend make them request the room change, don’t let them bully you into it. But if you just want to leave and not deal with it, if they’re doing this over text you can also email the housing director screenshots and request an emergency room change

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 20w

they said we had different values and i was too much drama, even though i had been great friends with them for the whole school year and this was a plan for months

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 20w

thank you, already filled out an application and emailed everyone so i should be out of the room soon

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20w

Wait same

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20w

It’s always the drama makers that accuse everyone else of being too much drama

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 20w

no way twin 😭😭 i hope you end up in a better room

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20w

You as well! It’s blessings in disguise for sure, and it sucks when it’s against all of them, but obviously they weren’t real friends lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 20w

Ooohhh same boat. Best part is when they make passive aggressive comments about you whenever you’re in the same room as them. At least you get to move. My administrators didn’t let me leave and I ended up sleeping in my dorms lobby.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 19w

we haven’t moved in yet, luckily the room assignment is for fall semester so i don’t actually have to live with them, but i would have had to be sharing a room

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