Sidechat icon
Join communities on Sidechat Download
Please spill your tea
upvote 20 downvote

default user profile icon
Anonymous 5w

My ex roommate would tell all of our friends very private conversations we had but would manipulate it to make me look bad because she was jealous, threatened to tell my parents that I was SAing myself because I didn't want to go to frats with her (btw I wasn't), texted my ex boyfriend that I blamed my car accident on him when I didn't, when I told her that she needed to move out she hit my friend and started having a tantrum while kicking my backpack...

upvote 7 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 5w

My roommate told me she didn’t want to have to find another roommate out of fear that someone would poison her cat. She also doesn’t clean up after said cat at all.

upvote 5 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 5w

2 years ago my ex roommate would keep a note on her phone tracking all the things I ate in a day and then would loudly announce it in a class we had together (I suffered from an ED a few years prior to that and she was trying to make me upset). She also reverse body shamed me for wearing low rise jeans. I didn’t wear them to show off I just liked the style and she yelled at me one morning that “not everyone can wear low rise”. Ok?? she was so jealous and i’m not sure why.

upvote 2 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 5w

told my ex roommate that i wasn’t comfortable with people sleeping in our shared room because of my sa. she violated my boundaries anyways and said that because she has a gf and not a bf it’s different. i told the ra, the ra told her to stop, she did it anyways, then called me homophobic (i’m bi) and got mad at me when i went to bed early after a long day right when her gf got to the dorm

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Wtf?? Did someone do that in the past or something

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

No! She actually went on to tell me that her therapist suggested that she shows symptoms of paranoia and schizophrenia. so that’s fun :)

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Really fun 😭 im sorry you have to experience that

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

Tried to get one of her friends to act like her and him weren't friends anymore to spy on me, DM my (at the time new) boyfriend that I was toxic and that she was better and when he left her on read she found him on campus to confront him, and recently shoulder checked me while I was talking to class because she's incredibly immature

upvote 6 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

When she was me and my boyfriend walking and training my new roommates PUPPY she layed her horn while driving by and then pulled over to talk and scare the dog

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

SH* sorry I just reread it, which I wasn't doing at the time but had a history of it

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

All this because you didn't want an extra body in that room 😭 i never understood why they can never go to their partner's place!

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #6 5w

She had too much time on her hands she was obsessed

upvote 5 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

She must've been extremely jealous! Did she even graduate? Seemed like she spent more time harassing you than studying or working

upvote 5 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

She's still here somehow. I filed a safety complaint after her little tantrum and she got kicked out of the dorm but I still see her around

upvote 2 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

fr!!!

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

it was because her girlfriend “didn’t get along with one of her roommates” but the girlfriend had an off campus house and had her own room so idk why they preferred a dorm room😭

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

the ex roommate did so much other shit to me to and it took a lot longer than it should’ve for us to stop being friends but once i drew the line and wanted to have a mature adult conversation, i suddenly was the bad guy. thing that sucks too is that my friends are still friends with her. some know the situation and the other doesn’t want to know anything.

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

This is something I never understood. You respect that your partners roommates dont want to host extra guests but get confused when it comes to your own roommates wanting the same...

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

the girlfriends roommates didn’t even care if other people were over cause they all had their own rooms the gf just didn’t like one of her roommates for whatever reason and i somehow became the scapegoat. i told my roommate her gf wasn’t allowed to sleep over when the gf was sick and she threw a fit. like girl it’s my sorority recruitment week and im also in marching band i CANNOT risk getting sick

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

and the only other time i said the gf couldn’t sleep over was after they came back from a concert late at night cause i was sick and didn’t want to risk getting the gf sick and the next day i asked my roommate how the concert was when she came back into the room and she threw her concert merch on her bed and stormed out of our room. yet im the dramatic one.

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #6 5w

yeah my roommate (def not that extreme) will ask me what I’m eating WHY I’m eating it HOW MUCH and then ask if she can have some after shaming me for what I’m eating. she steals my food constantly without asking and expects me to feed her dinner when she’s hungry. it’s weird asf and I try to stay out of the dorm as much as possible

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #7 5w

that’s SO ODD

upvote 1 downvote