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Is it like really bad/sad my roommate will wake me up early in the morning when my classes start later and she’ll force me to go to get breakfast with her because she can’t/does not wanna be alone?
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Anonymous 2w

okay i agree with everyone else she’s a fucking adult sometimes we gotta do shit on our own - let me guess only child?

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Anonymous 2w

say no ?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

It’s not that easy with her sadly I’ll tell her that but she’ll throw a fucking hissy fit and I’ve tried changing roommates but I can’t

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Tell her no, take out your phone and record her maybe threaten to show her weird behavior to the RA obviously don’t do anything w the video but she’ll probably listen

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

No actually which is surprising because as someone who has 4 siblings I’m not like that and she has 4 siblings

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

The problem is I’m also too nice and I would feel horrible and I would never wanna do that to her though cause I feel like that’s mean but I definitely wanna talk to the RA about it. I might just talk with my RA telling her how uncomfortable I am.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

then that could also be the case she probably always had someone with her at breakfast but overall stand your ground if she throws a fit tell her that be like “girl you are (whatever age she is) stop acting like a five year old bc you heard the word no”

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

Well it’s like I’m too nice and I always feel bad bc she told me she has separation anxiety but I have told her that I kind of wanna be on my own sometimes and I don’t wanna always go everywhere with her

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

girl i have been in your shoes of not wanting to be mean i get it! but waking you up JUST SO SHE WONT BE ALONE IS BS i get you wanna be nice but she isn’t being nice by waking you up and forcing you to go with her so imo you owe her nothing

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

Girl your so right ima just stand up for myself and if I feel bad for her ima tell myself to put ME first

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

YES 🙌🏼 DO IT GIRL she isn’t being considerate of you at all!! put yourself first i promise you future you will thank you a million times over!

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

Thank you queen!!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

OFC GIRL!

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