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Roommate Rants 4w
if you want ur roommate to communicate with you, you also need to be willing to start the conversation sometimes
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Anonymous 4w

When you are the one starting conversations all the time it gets old so eventually you stop.

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Anonymous 4w

I completely disagree, u have the problem u can speak to me lmfao 🤣

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Anonymous 4w

No cause I’m so glad this popped up on my trending today because I have to have a hard conversation with my roommate about why she’s been talking shit behind my back

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Anonymous 4w

like my roommate says she wants us to communicate well and whenever i start a conversation when something’s bothering me, she says she was confused but she could’ve just asked or started the conversation instead of waiting for me to say something???

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Anonymous 4w

communication is a two-way street

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Anonymous 4w

what if she’s proud of the fact that she’s mean and petty and scares me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

don’t expect good communication from ur roommate if you aren’t willing to communicate with them as well

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

THIS RIGHT HERE!!! Because me and my roommate both start the conversations with each other but every time i say something she always seems uninterested. She doesn’t even give me real answers she just says “mhm” “cool”. Also i’m pretty sure she messes with my stuff when i leave campus because my blanket covering under my bed was half way off and my big blanket was off my chair under my bed and i always make sure my stuff is where i had it before i leave.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4w

Agreed, but if my roommate had that big of a problem with me, why wouldn’t she come talk to me about it instead of spreading it around

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

The same thing happened to me. I was the only one who ever started conversation so eventually I stopped and we just didn’t really talk. Then my roommate pulled the we need to communicate more and I was just done.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

agreed, i’m always the one starting conversations and she always gets defensive and says she was confused but how could i know she was confused if she never asked me or brought it up?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

this is currently my issue. i would always start the conversations and she only responded with 1-2 words every time, and she never starts any conversation. so ive given up and i stopped talking to her other than me asking for permission to invite a friend into my room for a second since she put it in the roomate agreement 🙃

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