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Am I a bad person for asking for when my Roomate’s bring people over. Especially if it’s four people without notice
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Anonymous 2w

No. That’s your living space too, you have every right to know when strangers are going to be in it

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Anonymous 2w

No i normally ask my roommates before bringing anyone over even if it’s just to my room

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Anonymous 2w

And it’s not even that you have to ask just let me know, so when I go downstairs I’m not caught off guard to people turning their heads and staring at me

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Thank you. We had this rule before we moved in and they followed if for the first two weeks, and then we got into a fight for them talking shit about me. (I asked them to lock the door and do their dishes 😀) and they didn’t like that obviously so they have been bitches ever since with mental issues

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Hey let’s not call everything/one we dislike mentally Ill. Words mean things.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

Nope they have done this to people before as their roommates, and old friends have said the same thing. They said themselves they definitely do have issues but won’t get check out. So….

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

As we like to say in this field: Asshole isn’t a diagnosis. They sound like terrible roommates. That doesn’t equal mental illness. Some people just really suck.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

I don’t know bro that’s what they told me themselves and what their past Roomate’s/friends have said. They said it primarily because they are afraid of getting medicine

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

too woke

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