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Got into a fight with my roommate because I brought up something selfish that she was doing and how it affects me, she then used that to unload all of the little things I do that just annoy her... She made it difficult for me to shower, I left a dish out
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Anonymous 2w

To better explain what's happening, I break out into hives when I'm in cold water. Before she even signed the lease, I told her that I cannot take cold showers so there needs to be time each day where I can shower with warm-hot water. At first I'd shower at nights, but she would beat me to the bathroom and use up the hot water, so I switched to mornings. But if I didn't wake up early enough, she runs the dishwasher or uses hot water in her laundry in the morning.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

I've had to deal with pain or wake up at 5am just to take showers, and she used my confrontation to tell me that it's really annoying when I leave a singular plate in the sink.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

unfortunately by the sounds of that it was definitely on purpose. if you can, move out asap. especially because it’s not just cause you dislike cold showers and its an actual medical thing. her not being considerate at all says enough

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

I got 2 months until my lease ends & I graduate, gotta stick it out unfortunately.

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