
To better explain what's happening, I break out into hives when I'm in cold water. Before she even signed the lease, I told her that I cannot take cold showers so there needs to be time each day where I can shower with warm-hot water. At first I'd shower at nights, but she would beat me to the bathroom and use up the hot water, so I switched to mornings. But if I didn't wake up early enough, she runs the dishwasher or uses hot water in her laundry in the morning.