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Guys I have a roommate who has their own room and we share a space/bathroom and they bring randoms over, I feel so uncomfortable how do I say please not bring people over late and while I’m here without telling me??? In the nicest way possible pls
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Anonymous 1d

Just ask them hey in the future when you bring someone over can you just give me a heads up that someone coming over?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Is it reasonable to ask they don’t bring guys over late? Like I don’t want to be hiding in my room afraid of going to the bathroom

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

mmm idk. maybe compromise but i don’t think it’s fair to say she can’t EVER do that

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 18h

Random guys you don’t know, at anytime with out being made aware that they are coming?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14h

i’m confused u asked so i gave u input but that’s the compromise yes, just say “hey i’d prefer if you gave me a heads up before you brought people over (and/or bring people over less often)” instead of telling her she can never have hookups in her room

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14h

and that he can only stay in her room until he leaves

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 13h

Oh I’m sorry I wasent arguing or anything that’s a very reasonable compromise I suppose for both perspectives thank you

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7h

oh sorry 😭😭 i’m used to people on yikyak being mean

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