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Why do my roommates basically shame me for not wanting to wake up to make pancakes with them 💀 we're not little kids eating a family meal. I want to sleep in because we're not actually going somewhere, and I literally never eat breakfast
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Anonymous 3w

Sometimes ppl wanna bond a lil deeper and differently just tell them it’s not for u

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Anonymous 3w

aww they like you

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Anonymous 3w

ngl, i would’ve given anything to have roommates that wanted to include me in things 🥲

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Anonymous 3w

God forbid a whimsical slumber party

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Anonymous 3w

I have a feeling they are trying to include you, and maybe they like you as a person. Maybe if they saw this post they’d realize inside you’re more like sour milk

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Anonymous 3w

Yea guys Im aware they probably like me and I am grateful for them, I realize roommates could be significantly worse. Also I admit I could be the problem here 🥲 I'm really introverted and I just get tired of all the little jokes they make about me. I know they probably have good intentions but it really does feel like they aren't listening when I try to set boundaries

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Anonymous 3w

No I get this, especially since it sounds like you do so much with them outside of this. Sometimes you just need rest and time for yourself and that’s totally okay

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Anonymous 3w

Oh whatever dude it’s pancakes. Why are they mad about PANCAKES

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Anonymous 3w

I wish my roommates were like this, I honestly haven’t said a single word to either of them since last year

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Anonymous 3w

I FEEL THISNW MY HEART AND SOUL

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Anonymous 3w

make some coffee. then drink it in your room 🤣

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Anonymous 3w

I think that sometimes when someone invites you to do something even if you don’t want to do it you should just to be able to spend time with them. You don’t have to eat breakfast with them but maybe just hangout while they cook. Or, if you really don’t want to wake up and do that, suggest something else to do together instead.

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Anonymous 3w

I think you’d be a little less grumpy if you ate breakfast and were more social, Gotdamn

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

😭 I've already told and we've lived together for 2 yrs, I already hangout with them plus we cook and eat dinner together every day. If they want to bond deeper they could try to understand and not lowkey insult me when I explain why I don't want to do something

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

i get you cuz who tf wanna wake up early and immediently socialize

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

i knowww that's what i was thinking😖

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

wouldn’t a slumber party include sleeping why would you wake up early to sleep?

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3w

or they just don't want that to be how their morning goes. as somebody who would love an early morning pancake party i would also 1000% understand somebody wanting to sleep in and rest. there's nothing wrong with wanting solitude in the morning - or with being annoyed that people aren't respecting that want

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 3w

Maybe this is a sign lol, why not ask them to make pancakes with you or do something together

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Why not don’t take what you have for granted and go make some pancakes

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 3w

Wdym why lol? because of all the reasons I said above? I make and eat pancakes for lunch with them when we plan something like grocery shopping in the morning but otherwise I don't see why they should nag me to get up early. Inviting me to join would be a nice gesture except they continuously mention it afterwards and comment on my sleeping in

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Yea they like u, an they did t do anything wrong, but ur feelings r still reasonable and valid, it makes sense to be overwhelmed u didn’t do anthing bad

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 3w

Maybe they have boundaries they want to set? 🫤

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 3w

op has said several times that they all make food together consistently. op just doesn't like that, after telling them she wants to sleep in, they continue poking at op about it

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Anonymous replying to -> #18 3w

OP says they never eat breakfast and that’s not healthy. They probably shouldn’t be eating pancakes because you wanna get protein early in the day instead of carbs because it is more easily synthesised while in daylight, but still, they seem like an unpleasant person who would be healthier and happier if they ate three meals a day as is recommended by every nutritionist on the planet

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