Sidechat icon
Join communities on Sidechat Download
Okok I need to know an opinion on this. I got a roommate who wasn’t my original roommate when I moved into college, I had no clue who she was she wasn’t even on my room form, so I move in and I realized it wasn’t the other girls name, but I wasn’t sure if
upvote 9 downvote

default user profile icon
Anonymous 4w

Next to my people, after the ceremony my father and ex had left and I went back to my dorm to see if my roommate was there to hopefully meet her before it was late, and so I did I met her, her sister and mother, found out what major we where in and that we both enjoy theater, before her mother had left she asked me to make sure to wake her daughter up for classes because she doesn’t like to wake up…which is weird because we are adults and I shouldn’t have to wake your daughter up for classes…

upvote 17 downvote
🍾
Anonymous 4w

I am utterly baffled a baseless accusation, especially one that has been denied by multiple people, made it this far. It’s clear as day that she only said that to avoid accountability for her actions. I’d honestly think about taking legal action against the school for this, a defamation case against the roommate and the res life person too considering you’re being denied opportunities over this.

upvote 5 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 4w

She just had changed her name or maybe it was a new girl, when I got there she was moved into Bed A which was where my name tag was and the bed on the form I was assigned too, but whatever I went to bed B and had to switch our name tags to the correlating sides, she already had so much stuff moved in vrs me, and our “aesthetics” don’t really match if you get what I mean the only thing we had in common was theater and she was a baking student I am a Culinary student. When I moved in she wasn’t in

upvote 3 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 4w

yeah nobody reading allat bro

upvote 0 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

The room so my father, bf at the time and I moved me in before she returned and we left to go to the ceremony and stuff for welcoming, my father and ex bf managed to sit next to this group of three girls two about my age and the mother, to find out it was my roommate, and her mom and sister, and during the ceremony they where rude, she kept her headphones on the whole time and kinda was peering at my father and ex it was super weird and uncomfortable for them, and I noticed them bc they where

upvote 3 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

But after I had left to give them space to say goodbye and I went to find some people I’ve met at orientation and just start getting out and doing activities, later that night I returned and she was in the room still on the phone, so I said hi and got ready for bed since I didn’t want to be rude and interrupted her call, but then she had these Christmas lights that she never unplugged and we previously discussed lights off to sleep because I like total darkness, from there it just kept going

upvote 3 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Down hill, I would try to talk to her but she wasn’t really opened to talk she’d go to bed really early or really late no inbetween she’d just pass out lights on, watching stuff or listening to music so I’d have to turn off things then the morning she would sleep in and I would be up by 6 am and leaving, from there she would be on the phone for hours and never really talk to me so I’d only say hi and bye. She’d have her friends come in they’d be loud and messy and coming in at all hours, which

upvote 6 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

I didn’t really mind because I figured if she could then I could then she started having an issue about me having my friends coming in real quick or knocking to see if I was in, she stayed in the room all the time and I would be out and about. This was all week 1. While she stayed in she would eat dairy products and not wash her dishes. And had dirty laundry out all the time and was just a mess, I tried to keep myself together made my bed every morning reset my desk every night and kept my

upvote 3 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Laundry in my basket and even had a divider to change behind because I found out she was fully lesbian and no one had informed me this information, which I have no problem against but I’m a female who enjoys sleeping in boxers and a sport bra, which she said was okay but I wasn’t comfortable changing infront of her even if it was down to just my undergarments. From there the room started to have a smell, that people were stopping in the hallway and commenting on it because we had mold growing.

upvote 4 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

From her dairy that has been sitting in our room… at this point I would get back to my room and find her shoe on my bed. Her stuff all over my side and I was constantly vacuuming and cleaning after her. We reached almost two week mark and I went to res life where she then started crying to them that I was the issue and was calling me a racist (bc she was black and im white) and a homophobe and I had no clue where this came from one of her classmates who is my best friend since jr year of

upvote 3 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

High school is black and gay.. but one of her closest friends who is white could rip the N word bc she had a black cousin…but I was the racist one because I had a protect the colors flag (police, military, emt, and firefighters) because I come from a family of emergency responders, I also grew up in a biracial family but I’ve never told her this, so it was so out of sorts and the school instantly took her side and started pulling my friends in and questioning them about me and making a huge mess

upvote 3 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

The res life kept telling me when they find out that my friends and I have been lying about me not being a racist and homophobe we will all be kicked out of the college and there will be a lot of repercussions, and causing my anxiety to spike and me to spiral that I began going home by week two and driving two hours to class and avoiding my room completely and days I didn’t go home I would pull all nighters and stay in the lean toos by our lake or go into the room at 4 am and leave at 6 am while

upvote 5 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

She slept, she then moved out by family weekend which was the that weekend of week three and it has been proven that I am not homophobic and racist but I lost the school scholarship bc of her and also am no longer able to apply for certain things at the school because of what res life thinks of me now, and basically has caused issues in our corresponding classes

upvote 4 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

That sucksss- maybe talk to someone higher up the chain about how a baseless accusation caused you to lose xyandz and what can be done to fix it. Also maybe file a complaint about the specific person from res life that only listened to her side

upvote 11 downvote
🍾
Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

$10 says the res life person either is friends with the roommate (which would also explain why they did nothing about the smell) or has some one sided beef with OP. Both are grounds to have that person removed from their position.

upvote 10 downvote
🍾
Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

Congratulations you just won the most useless comment award! You could have just scrolled but instead decided to leave this useless comment instead! Here’s your prize 🏆

upvote 0 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> amethyst_popping_bottles 4w

thanks dawg i always wanted that. i'd like to thank me, myself, I, and most importantly, nobody fucking else for this achievement. actually now that I think about it, your mom really supported me through the rough times always kept my mood up with that hot sex, so i should thank her too. but anyways i worked hard for this so yeah thanks guys!

upvote 0 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

So my next step would be president of my college which I have been on a wait list to meet with

upvote 5 downvote
🍾
Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

When you do make sure to mention that the res life person has harassed you about a baseless accusation and has threatened both you and your friends with expulsion because they believe you all are liars. Show any documentation that you have.

upvote 6 downvote