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Roommate Rants 3w
am i wrong for thinking that my roommates making fatphobic remarks and also lowkey racist remarks is problematic? mind you i considered these girls my friends too. they’re white and im black & hispanic…
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Anonymous 3w

I think this is valid to feel weird abt. I’m black and my roommates are white and even though they’re not racist if they made comments that were offensive I would definitely want to say something I would say something if you feel bothered enough by it

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Anonymous 3w

This is lk how I feel with some of my friends. I’m black and not even from America, but sometimes they just say like and say some weird jokes that I just don’t get.

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Anonymous 3w

if it’s not at you, it’s not your problem and your just be creating one for yourself

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

This is a dumb fucking take. OP, if you feel uncomfortable, do something about it. Make your boundaries known & open up a conversation. If they don’t want to listen, you get to decide how your relationship continues. It’s very simple. Communicating with your friends is NOT “making problems” for yourself.

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