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came home from sb to a used bloody pad on the top of our kitchen trash can. we literally have a trash can in the bathroom and i provide the trash bags. she had to walk all the way out holding that and put it in the kitchen. it stunk
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Anonymous 6d

and when I confronted her about it she basically said i was the problem and that she’s just “never going to leave her room an stay out of my hair from now on” tf did i do? when did i say that?? i lit just told her what she did was gross

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Anonymous 6d

What is it with people putting used menstrual products everywhere but the fucking bathroom trash??? You did nothing wrong she’s just trying to play victim cause she knows what she did is gross but can’t stand being in the wrong.

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Anonymous 6d

It moreso sounds like she was in the kitchen when she took it out ngl 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6d

WHICH IS EVEN WORSE😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

Fr 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> amethyst_popping_bottles 6d

ikr, then she tried to tell me that i was the problem cuz i do things to upset her but when i asked what i did she said “im not talking ab this” and then said she refuses to speak w an RA… like girl are you rly just making stuff up because ur embarrassed i called u out for ur PAD????

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Anonymous replying to -> amethyst_popping_bottles 6d

now i have a meeting with the RA bc she’s purposely being hostile and doing other things on purpose rhat ive asked her not to do?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

I’d be calling her out the entire RA meeting when she comes up with excuses. “When have I ever done that? I’m not there at that time I couldn’t have done that. Why have you never said anything before? Why is this only become an issue after I asked you to take care of your pad?”

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Anonymous replying to -> amethyst_popping_bottles 6d

ive literally text her and asked if theres things iv done that have bothered her, we literally filled out a roommate agreement form when she answered if we have problems we’d talk to each ab them. she’s only ever gotten mad at me when i ask her to clean up after herself! literally dk why she’s trying to blame me all of the sudden, like girl i’m the only who cleans and i provide EVERY PRODUCT for the apt, i could just take it all away????

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

Don’t take anything away until after the meeting, you don’t want to give her any actual ammunition against you. Just show the receipts if she’s tries to lie. Let the RA tell her to grow up and take accountability on top of telling her to stop weaponizing used pads instead of communicating.

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