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is it rude for me to not be as quiet/careful in my room when it’s close to noon and my roommate is still asleep? i wake up before her everyday and most days i am quiet then i leave but some days i feel like i can’t move so lowkey im giving up
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Anonymous 3w

it’s not my fault my roommate goes to sleep at 3am and then sleeps 12 hrs on weekends‼️ i have things to do so if im awake at 10am and just happen to make noise then it is what it is🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous 3w

i have roomates who wake me up early asf bc they being loud. For me i understand if u are trying to be quiet but its deadass respect. If you were still alseep would u want them to be loud asf? It can definitely be hard to be quiet js dont be a bull in a china shop yk?

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Anonymous 3w

It’s noon you can do what you want I would say. It would be kinda crazy for your roommate to be mad at you for being semi loud in the middle of the day even if they are sleeping.

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Anonymous 3w

Personally you should always try to be quite when someone is asleep because of the roles were reversed think about how that would make you feel. Not everyone is a heavy sleeper. It’s honestly just a respect thing. If it’s a problem I would recommend sitting down and having a heart to heart with your roommate.

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Anonymous 3w

Honestly I be quite during quiet hours until 11:30am because like yk that’s enough. Ofc I still be quiet but I have to do my stuff so I can’t delay everything just for her.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

oh absolutely! i’m never intentionally loud but i also am not overly quiet. it’s 12:38pm right now and she still isn’t up which is just a little frustrating!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Oof the best thing i can advise u to do is ask them what time they are okay with you being loud at. Thats what my roommates did for me but they still talk loud at 8 am 🤣

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

I would still be considerate but I wouldn’t like, act like a mouse

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3w

I’m that roommate but I will never complain about noise at 10am

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