Well did you just “tell” them or did you open up a two way discussion and ask their opinions as well
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Anonymous16w
girl its not a business transaction
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Anonymous16w
no ur in the right for sure- maybe she just knows she doesnt clean up and she feels bad
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Anonymous16w
show us the message!
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Anonymous16w
maybe it was the way you said it 🤷♀️
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Anonymous#116w
I did. I said “when you get back we need to discuss”
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Anonymous#216w
No duh but buying the things it adds up. Paper towels and trash bags are expensive
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AnonymousOP16w
And to add to this she never cleaned last year. I would do the cleaning. I’m not doing that this year
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Anonymous#316w
I was nice about it too so definitely not
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Anonymous#216w
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AnonymousOP16w
i just saw the message you sent and it’s def not the way you said it. maybe your roommate just is like a very one worded person over text?
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Anonymous#316w
She usually responds more. I thought she was going to say “hope you’re summer is good too” like she typically responds. Instead she said “okay 👍”
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AnonymousOP16w
oh ew weirdddd
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Anonymous#316w
Right. She hates that I tell her to clean up after herself but I don’t have to do all of the hard work
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Anonymous#216w
Especially when trash bags and paper towels get expensive. I don’t wanna be the only one buying the things
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AnonymousOP16w
then Okay seems like a reasonable response no?
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Anonymous#416w
Not if you look at the message and how she typically responds
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AnonymousOP16w
That’s not bad
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AnonymousOP15w
this sounds a lot better than how your post comes off. please make sure you’re both communicating and ask each other instead of telling! also there’s really no better response to this than “okay”