Well did you just “tell” them or did you open up a two way discussion and ask their opinions as well
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Anonymous10w
girl its not a business transaction
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Anonymous10w
no ur in the right for sure- maybe she just knows she doesnt clean up and she feels bad
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Anonymous10w
show us the message!
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Anonymous10w
maybe it was the way you said it 🤷♀️
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Anonymous#110w
I did. I said “when you get back we need to discuss”
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Anonymous#210w
No duh but buying the things it adds up. Paper towels and trash bags are expensive
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AnonymousOP10w
And to add to this she never cleaned last year. I would do the cleaning. I’m not doing that this year
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Anonymous#310w
I was nice about it too so definitely not
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Anonymous#210w
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AnonymousOP10w
i just saw the message you sent and it’s def not the way you said it. maybe your roommate just is like a very one worded person over text?
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Anonymous#310w
She usually responds more. I thought she was going to say “hope you’re summer is good too” like she typically responds. Instead she said “okay 👍”
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AnonymousOP10w
oh ew weirdddd
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Anonymous#310w
Right. She hates that I tell her to clean up after herself but I don’t have to do all of the hard work
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Anonymous#210w
Especially when trash bags and paper towels get expensive. I don’t wanna be the only one buying the things
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AnonymousOP10w
then Okay seems like a reasonable response no?
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Anonymous#410w
Not if you look at the message and how she typically responds
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AnonymousOP10w
That’s not bad
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AnonymousOP9w
this sounds a lot better than how your post comes off. please make sure you’re both communicating and ask each other instead of telling! also there’s really no better response to this than “okay”