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Me: sends a nice message about how we are going to divide costs/ clean My roomie: okay I hope we get a long
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Anonymous 10w

Well did you just “tell” them or did you open up a two way discussion and ask their opinions as well

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Anonymous 10w

girl its not a business transaction

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Anonymous 10w

no ur in the right for sure- maybe she just knows she doesnt clean up and she feels bad

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Anonymous 10w

show us the message!

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Anonymous 10w

maybe it was the way you said it 🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

I did. I said “when you get back we need to discuss”

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 10w

No duh but buying the things it adds up. Paper towels and trash bags are expensive

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

And to add to this she never cleaned last year. I would do the cleaning. I’m not doing that this year

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 10w

I was nice about it too so definitely not

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 10w
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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

i just saw the message you sent and it’s def not the way you said it. maybe your roommate just is like a very one worded person over text?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 10w

She usually responds more. I thought she was going to say “hope you’re summer is good too” like she typically responds. Instead she said “okay 👍”

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

oh ew weirdddd

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 10w

Right. She hates that I tell her to clean up after herself but I don’t have to do all of the hard work

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 10w

Especially when trash bags and paper towels get expensive. I don’t wanna be the only one buying the things

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

then Okay seems like a reasonable response no?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 10w

Not if you look at the message and how she typically responds

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

That’s not bad

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

this sounds a lot better than how your post comes off. please make sure you’re both communicating and ask each other instead of telling! also there’s really no better response to this than “okay”

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