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roommate sleeps at her boyfriends all the time so I basically live in a single and I’m so grateful #this room was promised to me 3000 years ago
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Anonymous 9w

Exact opposite for me, my roommates bf is visiting and he’s staying in the dorm😃🔫

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Anonymous 9w

Mine has basically moved in w her bf atp. It’s wonderful. Wednesday and Thursday night I had sleepovers with friends and I had another one last night. Except when she came in here and seen me and 2 of my friends literally just laying on the floor and gave us a concerned look…

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Anonymous 9w

My bf lives w me alllll the time so ik his roommate is happy lol

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Anonymous 9w

yo my roommate is always at her boyfriends too

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9w

you can say no 💔

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 9w

I mean if he’s from out of town I really think the roommate should have the right to house him at the very least. u gotta accept that they live here too

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 8w

um. no? the roommate lives there but her boyfriend does not. OP is not responsible for the housing of her roommates boyfriend

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 8w

I still think people should be able to feel at home if they’re stuck living there for months, as long as a responsible conversation is had about it and it’s not a random drop-in.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 8w

okay but clearly the person commenting is not like happy with the idea of her boyfriend visiting for months, which makes it seem like that convo didn't happen. and it's the girlfriend's responsibility to make sure her boyfriend has somewhere to stay if he's going to visit that isn't going to make the roommate uncomfortable. it's not the roommate's responsibility to allow the boyfriend to visit and be comfortable if she doesnt want that to happen.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 8w

Sorry I think I was lowkey projecting a bit by accident, I personally am the type of person to have this conversation, say yes anyways, and act disgruntled regardless just because I’d feel bas saying “no”. Which yeah I can’t reasonably assume the person commenting would do the same, but that was the idea I had in my head, sorry about that.

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