
okay but clearly the person commenting is not like happy with the idea of her boyfriend visiting for months, which makes it seem like that convo didn't happen. and it's the girlfriend's responsibility to make sure her boyfriend has somewhere to stay if he's going to visit that isn't going to make the roommate uncomfortable. it's not the roommate's responsibility to allow the boyfriend to visit and be comfortable if she doesnt want that to happen.
Sorry I think I was lowkey projecting a bit by accident, I personally am the type of person to have this conversation, say yes anyways, and act disgruntled regardless just because I’d feel bas saying “no”. Which yeah I can’t reasonably assume the person commenting would do the same, but that was the idea I had in my head, sorry about that.