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Roommate Rants 3d
her. boyfriend. is . always. here. GO HOME
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Anonymous 3d

Maybe talk to her about it and see if she would limit him being there to 3 days a week or something like that. If he doesn’t pay rent he shouldn’t be there all the time

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Anonymous 3d

I'm having the same issue. I don't think he has a job or home atp and she gives him her key fob to come and go as he pleases.

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Anonymous 2d

Tell her that she needs to get better at telling you when he’s over or you’re telling the RA and he won’t be allowed over anymore. It’s a freaking dorm there isn’t enough space to have a third person essentially living there

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Anonymous 2d

This happened to me and then eventually he started living with us, without even talking to me about it and no he did not help with rent

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Anonymous 2d

wait your in a dorm?? oh girl REPORT REPORT REPORT TO THE RA

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Anonymous 2d

Move in with him to establish dominance

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Anonymous 2d

s his d

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

it's not really the fact that he's there, it's the fact that he's there without her telling me he'd be there. i've tried telling her to at least warn me before he comes over so i can be dressed appropriately or so i don't come home to him just there and she said she would but i've never once gotten a text that he'd be there. i would just like a little warning, just at least 15 minutes of a warning, but i get nothing, he just shows up

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

you could always try being confrontational without causing a problem. you could say something like, “hey roommates name, could you do me a favor? whenever your boyfriend comes over could you tell me a couple of hours before? it just makes me feel awkward when i don’t know if you have company over, id really appreciate it” but idk if she would think you’re trying to get w her man yk

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3d

that’s not okay either. that is your space just as much and it’s hers. you get a say in who comes over. you should talk to your RA if it’s a big issue bc he isn’t allowed to stay for more than 72 hours

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2d

oh damn. luckily we're in a dorm so he can't move in, but trust id be PISSED

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2d

Snipe his dog?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2d

If you don’t live on campus, contact the property manager, she’s illegally moving someone in if they spend more than 3 nights a week

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2d

Low key if she thinks someone is getting a her man over something like this, then she's got a lot of therapy to get to

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 2d

Trying to get* not "getting a her"

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2d

I did this to my roommate and it solved everything immediately

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