
not a common occurrence for him to be there, same with her boyfriend. if hers comes over i make sure to tell her if im coming back (or stay the night somewhere else so they have time together bc its not a big deal for me!) and while she has not offered to stay anywhere else (also not a big deal) she does usually tell me when she’s on her way to the room, so it was unexpected. everything is good though with us so i am not worried about it, and it feel it would’ve been awkward had i mentioned it