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I love how my roommate says it’s our room but you don’t clean or anything like no it’s my room and I’m gonna act like it cause if I clean and do everything you don’t get a say in any shit I do.
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Anonymous 3d

nobody’s perfect but if you’re sharing a living space there is no world in which it is only your room! you can ask them directly to help clean if they are contributing to the mess but they’re still a person and deserve to have their living space acknowledged. honestly you seem like an asshole

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

If I’m an asshole you try living with someone who leaves pubic hair in your shower, food in your BATHROOM sink, trash on the floor in a shared room, and talks loudly on the phone every night arguing with their partner. I think it’s basic decency to want someone to not act incompetent.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

Also I haven’t even complained about it till now I’ve been asking and asking and if that makes ME an asshole then I guess I am but don’t ever say it without knowing what the fuck is actually happening cause maybe that person isn’t actually an asshole and now you seem like an inconsiderate dumbass.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

could it be possible that your roommate is mentally ill or are they just inconsiderate like that?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

*if they are im obviously not insinuating it’s your responsibility to deal with but if they are it’s something worth giving them just a bit of grace over

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

She’s not mentally ill she’s just overly carefree and when I ask her for simple stuff she will act like I’m not even living with her and ignore my existence. I got a little heated at her once and she played victims saying I hurt her feelings and wouldn’t talk to me for a week. I just want her to clean her trash and her hair in the shower

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