
nobody’s perfect but if you’re sharing a living space there is no world in which it is only your room! you can ask them directly to help clean if they are contributing to the mess but they’re still a person and deserve to have their living space acknowledged. honestly you seem like an asshole
If I’m an asshole you try living with someone who leaves pubic hair in your shower, food in your BATHROOM sink, trash on the floor in a shared room, and talks loudly on the phone every night arguing with their partner. I think it’s basic decency to want someone to not act incompetent.
Also I haven’t even complained about it till now I’ve been asking and asking and if that makes ME an asshole then I guess I am but don’t ever say it without knowing what the fuck is actually happening cause maybe that person isn’t actually an asshole and now you seem like an inconsiderate dumbass.
She’s not mentally ill she’s just overly carefree and when I ask her for simple stuff she will act like I’m not even living with her and ignore my existence. I got a little heated at her once and she played victims saying I hurt her feelings and wouldn’t talk to me for a week. I just want her to clean her trash and her hair in the shower