yeah so the main thing is because of her ed i feel like she just judges me heavily, like what i look like, what i eat, when i eat and i dont even feel comfortable eating in our shared space anymore 🙁
hi guys
idek if this is the right community for this but my roommate has an eating disorder and i feel like it genuinely affects me you know? and im just looking to rant about it
very common with people with EDs. they’re competitive because they’re so insecure with themselves they start projecting onto others.
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Anonymous3w
i used to have this problem with the little passive aggressive comments so i would just say shit like i love eating and feeling fueled bc leave me alone tf
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Anonymous2w
my roommate has an ed and atp i think she wanted to room with me because she thought im uglier and less competent than her and now she’s mad because im not and im also not insecure. sad for her
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Anonymous#13w
i need to start doing this cuz wdym when i eat she asks “you’re gonna eat all that by yourself?”
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Anonymous#13w
i knoww but i dont want to trigger her or anything
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AnonymousOP2w
but honestly at the end of the day no one can help her but herself, and if she’s gonna start taking you down with her you gotta put yourself first
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AnonymousOP2w
asf because that’s such a weird comment 😭 yeah i’m gna eat it AND enjoy it
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Anonymous#22w
omg ew
i’m not one to hate on ed’s but the stereotype of them being insufferable is so true
i think my roommate did the opposite where shes using me as “thinspo” and she only allows herself to eat when i eat and finish my food