No you’re not an asshole a boundary needs to be set you don’t know these guys

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I’ve been saying forever that if you don’t have a private room, you either have to give ample time for your roommate to make other arrangements (ie telling your roommate the day before so they can find somewhere else to sleep) or get creative with where you go (his place, the car, a motel, etc). You’re not an asshole for wanting to tell her to she needs to either act like a decent human or stop doing hook ups until she has a private room. Tell her that this is grounds for Title IX

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asking genuinely because i don’t wanna seem too controlling but it feels kind of uncomfy to have men over she barely knows while im sleeping and don’t even know someone’s over

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No not an asshole Though I can understand both sides seeing as I was both sides Your side is 100% valid because wtf Her side from how it was when I was on tinder you genuinely don’t rlly know when it’s gunna happen it just kinda does That being said find somewhere else to go

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Yeah that’s a serious safety concern I would definitely say smthing

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Are you in the same room? Or just the same house?

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Yea no, cuz that's weird she should be able to find somewhere else to go or ask you way before hand. I would def not wanna be in my room is my roommate was hooking up with someone

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Not the asshole

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