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How do I tell my roommate that she and her bf can’t have sex at 8am when I’m literally getting ready for class ( we both have class)

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Anonymous 10w

Knock on her door and say “hey keep it down” and if she’s in a shared room with you contact Title IX because that’s indecent sexual behavior and considered a form of sexual assault

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Anonymous 10w

I’m in a similar situation rn. My roommate has his gf visiting from home so you can imagine what their weekend has consisted of. I don’t mind what they do but they go at it so loud that it’s ridiculous. I have study rooms about 50 feet from my apartment door and when I walked out of one earlier to go fill up my water, i could hear them all the way down the hall. Not only that, but I live in a 4 bed 2 bath apartment so I share a bathroom with someone and multiple times since yesterday at this

Anonymous 10w

if you share a room, that's sexual assault. tell her that you don't consent and you're uncomfortable, inform her that it is sexual assault, and warn her once that if it continues you'll address it through the school and/or legally

Anonymous 10w

Cuss her tf out??

Anonymous 10w

Have sex so she knows how it feels

Anonymous 10w

Lets take revenge. Me and u are going to show her how ut feels.

Anonymous 10w

Yo u got permission to blow everyones shit smoove off 😭

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Anonymous 10w

Say wait for me to leave

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Anonymous 10w

Can we start right after you leave?

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Anonymous 10w

Just let them???

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Anonymous 10w

Ur just hating bro let them fuck

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Anonymous 10w

Ask for a turn

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Anonymous 10w

Join , 3 is better than 2

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Anonymous 10w

Just join in why not 🤷

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Anonymous

#2 10w

We are not even 4 ft away Her bf is also very weird like asked when I back to class if me and him could go out tg( his gf will be in class)

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Anonymous

#3 10w

Time I have went to go use the bathroom, but I haven’t been able to bc they are doing it in there. Idc what they do in private but it makes me really uncomfortable with them doing it in our shared bathroom/shower.

Anonymous

#3 10w

Yeah, we share a room and it’s just so bad like he was over last weekend and I stayed at my boyfriend’s because I didn’t wanna deal with it and like now she’s having him over again during the school week and like every weekend

Anonymous

#3 10w

Literally could not agree more and like idc what they do but why can’t they go to his house…

Anonymous

OP 10w

My roommate last year in my dorm was weird asf like that too. I woke up to him having sex in the middle of the night 3 times. I reported it to my RA and they helped me get a title IX report and hearing.

Anonymous

#3 10w

She’s just like super mad weird and like I don’t know like she doesn’t even like shower or anything like that so like I already on the daily just feel disgusting being around her

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OP 10w

Report her to title IX. That’s the only way my roommate would stop even after asking him to stop multiple times

Anonymous 10w

What’s dramatic abt waking up to someone having sex

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Anonymous 10w

Yea ofc imma ask

Anonymous 10w

erm hey guys, can i join in on the uh, ahem… err copulating? 🤓 🤓

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Anonymous 10w

Dramatic to not want to be SAed??

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OP 10w

Ewwww you should tell her he’s creepy

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Anonymous 10w

Man, I hope not! I don’t want to get SAed by my roommate 😂😂

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#17 10w

Idc what they do in private and shi but while being in the room while your roommate is getting plowed is wild

Anonymous

#16 10w

Ooop

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OP 10w

i had a situation like this too and let it go. i wish every day that i would've stood up for myself. my best advice is tell her it makes you uncomfortable and it's uncalled for.

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#18 10w

I’ve said a few things here and there when it was the first time and now she’s just doing it bc she things she can do wtv she wants

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OP 10w

are you on campus? if so, talk to your RA (you don't have to give them all of the details, but let them know what's going on). if not, tell her to grow the hell up. you know she wouldn't like it if you were doing this to her 🫶

Anonymous

#15 10w

You’re gross

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#18 10w

I am on campus I’m just scared people will find out bc like every time I leave it’s always a problem The other day I talked to my RA abt Amazon locker my roommate lost her mind about me leaving

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OP 10w

it sounds to me like she's pretty controlling. do you have anyone that you feel comfortable bringing with you to talk to your RA? or even to talk to her with? i know it's scary, but in my experience it just let her walk all over me even more. i might even ask to switch roommates if you feel like it's to that point

Anonymous

#18 10w

at the end of the day, we're adults and should know better. she's clearly not an adult yet

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#2 10w

Thank you. Because nobody could say this nearly as eloquently and make it make sense.

Anonymous

#18 10w

She’s 17…

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OP 10w

I would definitely contact the Deans office then. They will get you in contact with who you need to speak to. If that’s a step too far ahead right now you can email your hall director. They usually have an idea of how to handle these issues

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#5 10w

Okie thank you, I just don’t know what to do since obv it’s my first year and I don’t wanna deal with this

Anonymous

#21 10w

Nah bro not while OP is THERE

Anonymous

#20 10w

I’ve tried she doesn’t care”your sleeping so you don’t even know” is what I was told

Anonymous

#21 10w

Nahhh that’s wild

Anonymous

#2 10w

i don’t think she cares if she’s having sex so casually

Anonymous

#2 10w

Not true

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Anonymous

#1 10w

Google is free babe

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OP 10w

Nope that is SA, please contact Title IX. That’s so disgusting

Anonymous

#1 10w

do you really think if you search up “Is having sex loudly next to your roommate legal?” it’s going to say yes?

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#22 10w

That’s why I said if you’re in a shared room and they’re having sex with you there, it’s a form of SA. Idk what part of that is confusing