Roommate Rants on Sidechat | HELP! I got a lot to type out. My roommate asked if her "friend" can stay the night on Tuesday and be gone the next. It's been way past that. The room has smelt funky, she does not communicate with abt him, and she left him here to sleep alone with me.

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Roommate Rants 10w

HELP! I got a lot to type out. My roommate asked if her "friend" can stay the night on Tuesday and be gone the next. It's been way past that. The room has smelt funky, she does not communicate with abt him, and she left him here to sleep alone with me.

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Anonymous 10w

I think at this point she’s purposely dodging you so the guy can stay longer. It might be more effective to text/email her that she needs to make time to talk to you about her friend or you’re going straight to the RA/leasing office and reporting her for violating the guest policy.

Anonymous 10w

I lack the strength to speak up, she ignores me when i say hi, she never told me she was just going to leave him here to sleep in the room alone with me, I think he has a key to the room, smelled weird ever since he's been staying and my friends say the same thing, I get uncomfortable to go shower bc they are just in bed. There's just been lack of communication on both sides and I'm going to talk to her today, but she's not here just the guy

Anonymous 10w

Have you talked to the guy by chance? I’d be curious to know what he thinks the situation is

Anonymous 10w

Absolutely not, tell her that’s not acceptable and tell the RA know next time that shit happens

Anonymous

#2 10w

I was never introduced to the guy and honestly he just seems cozy in the dorm. My roommate even mentioned he doesn't have a place to stay and that's why she asked in the first place. I didn't know it was going to be to this extent though. BUT he has asked me questions abt like the boba place, rain, and the football

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OP 10w

and she also mentioned he would be gone the next day (which was Wednesday), so that's why i was fine with it in the first place

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Anonymous

OP 10w

Yeah his housing situation is not your problem, especially since we have no idea if what your roommate said is true. For all we know him not having a place to stay just means that he doesn’t have a hotel room to stay while he visits and he has a home to go back to. This is why you need to force a conversation about all of this.

Anonymous

amethyst_popping_bottles 10w

Yeah i'm abt to talk to her tn

Anonymous

OP 10w

HELL NO, she wants him to move in. Your place is not a homeless shelter