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My roommate never leaves the room they are just always here. I see their location and they will leave for class and then just stay in the room and will be in bed for the rest of the day starting at 12pm. They eat and do work all in the dorm.
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Anonymous 5w

They’re not a terrible roommate it’s just I feel like I can’t even be in the room or unwelcome in it

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Anonymous 5w

and this is why i went to a uni with private bedrooms😭💔even if you like them, it’s exhausting to always have someone present

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Anonymous 5w

maybe they’re just lonely or solitary. I’m very independent, so I’m a lot like your rm except I have an apt with my own room. home, work, school, home. might be nice to check in on them if you’re worried but all in all as long as they’re clean and respectful you’ll survive 🙌

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Anonymous 4w

Look, I know it sucks not getting alone time but this is simply part of having roommates. If you’re getting mad at someone for staying in the space they’re paying to stay in, that’s fucking audacious and entitle af I’m sorry. If u want alone time, ur not getting it in ur room. It’s so obvious some of u didn’t grow up with siblings lmao

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Anonymous 5w

I’m kind of like your rm, but I don’t mind when my roommates in the room. Maybe try to bond with them or check on them (even though it’s the end of the semester) they may be stressed or have things going on. I tend to stay in my dorm to study because it’s easier for me to not have distractions or because I know I’m going to get a call and don’t want to disturb other people by being otp in public

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

Your roommate should be allowed in the room too bro

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

I never said she wasn’t, I said I don’t mind when she is in here as it doesn’t bother me

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

I am worried but I don’t wanna come off wrong if I bring it up so I was gonna wait until the last 2 weeks

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

I pay for the space too and they make me feel unwelcome in it. You sound entitled

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