
speak to her and/or your RA about this. it is perfectly reasonable and not vindictive to ask them to please not engage in any sexual activity in the shower. if you don’t want to be that blunt you can even ask her not to allow him to be in the shower. I have that rule with my roomie. that is so violating this is making me livid for you
the difference is the noises and the fact that they were waking her up at 1-3am. and they clearly didn’t care to clean if after. like if you’re gonna do that in a shared shower at least bleach it after or something & don’t do it while your roommate home. that doesn’t make it much better tho