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Just bc you want friends over at 11 pm does not mean I want friends over at 11pm
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Anonymous 4w

One time I was working two different jobs in one day and I asked her to please not invite someone over that day, any day but that day. She did anyway. Okay fine, whatever, you do have the right to have people over I guess. But then she got mad at me??? For not saying hello?? For not being social??? HELLO?? IM EXHAUSTED AND I DIDNT WANT PEOPLE OVER IN THE FIRST PLACE?? I just want to go to bed??? Hello???

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Anonymous 4w

I mean tbf it is a Friday night and it’s their right to have friends over when they want

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

They were screaming, taking shots, and making tik toks full volume. It’s okay to have friends over as long as you are considerate of others in the apartment but they are definetly not we’ve had neighbors complain multiple times about how loud they are and they just don’t care I hate it here 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Does your apartment have quiet hours?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

I know mine is midnight at my apartment so I would maybe contact your landlord if they’re being super loud past the quiet hours

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

We do but they aren’t really enforced and the landlord could care less as long as they pay rent

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Well maybe just start blasting music or your phone right by her room when she’s trying to sleep so she can understand how annoying it is. My room mate a few years ago was so loud at 3am with her friends that I would start doing the dishes and listening to music super late when she didn’t have friends over, and she stopped being super loud

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