Anonymous #1 10w

Maybe. They’re barely around to begin with so maybe that’s contributing to it? We had 1 convo during move-in and then they stopped interacting. They’re like this with our other roommates too. Like a couple times when I wasn’t there they’d forget their key, knock on the door to get our other roommates to let them inside, and then rush in without giving anyone a second glance. Ik they could be worse and I don’t wanna be friends, but being so unapproachable??

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Anonymous OP 10w

Oh wow yeah. That is kind of odd. All I can think of is maybe being socially awkward since they won’t even interact with your other roommates. I won’t lie, my first year of having roommates (6 person apartment on campus lol), I did lot interact much with my roommates, sure I would say hi and answer questions if they interact with me but most of the times i was trying to keep to myself because I was feeling very unfamiliar and also uncomfortable since they were not very accommodating.

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Anonymous #1 10w

I’m sure you and your roommates are. But what I wished they did was accommodate me more. Like maybe ask if I wanted to go eat lunch together or play a card game or watch a show. On the times they did invite me to play like frisbee or something I felt much more comfortable to even just talk about our environment, the day, and playing the game. Even small talk is baby steps! Maybe try get your roommate group to have a day where you guys all do something together and coordinate a date in advanced

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