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How to deal with narcissistic Roomate?
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Anonymous 3w

When you have a grievance with them you have to be very careful how you phrase it. Like full blown therapy-speak. Instead “you are” say “I feel”, just walk on eggshells until you’re able to get out of the situation bc I’ve been in this scenario for 3 years and it never changes. Especially if they’re lower IQ and lack self awareness about their condition.

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Anonymous 3w

Have you tried beating that ass?

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Anonymous 3w

Try Reddit too for this one. Maybe look up the question to see if someone else asked it.

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Anonymous 3w

move out. there’s no way around it

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Anonymous 3w

Look up the gray rock method, document everything, and move out as soon as you can.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

I mean this with no offense. I’m definitely not walking on egg shells for their comfort. They very much do lack self awareness. I don’t even speak To them. But they constantly have issues.

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Anonymous replying to -> amethyst_popping_bottles 3w

They will move out before me. And I already like completely cut off comms with them. And they still find an issue, but if anyone else does anything it’s okay for them to do it but not me.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

That’s what the gray rock method is for. I can’t really explain it in detail here but it’ll give you a road map on how to give them a nonresponse to their behavior without giving them the emotional reaction they’re seeking.

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Anonymous replying to -> amethyst_popping_bottles 3w

Yes yes

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