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I don’t even know how to preface this, so I’ll let it all hang out, MY ROOMMATE WONT STOP TALKING ABT HER MOMS V@GINA??? HELP ME????
655 upvotes, 24 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in Roommate Rants. "I don’t even know how to preface this, so I’ll let it all hang out, MY ROOMMATE WONT STOP TALKING ABT HER MOMS V@GINA??? HELP ME????"
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Anonymous 2w

This qualifies for Title IX. Give her one final warning to stop talking about that or you will escalate to the RA. Do so if this continues, and explain at mediation that this is her last chance to cut it out or it becomes a Title IX filing. If she still continues file it.

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Anonymous 2w

Tell her to shut the fuck up? Who the hell wants to know about that 😟

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Anonymous 2w

BRO i had a similar experience, my roomate would talk to her sister on the phone about why her sisters 4 yr old son wasn’t circumcised 💔💔😭😭 she also put on a weird Boston accent, I had to fucking leave and go on a walk

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Anonymous 2w

As in… has said this MULTIPLE TIMES???? What more is there to say???

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Anonymous 2w

What’s wrong with it? It stank ?

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Anonymous 2w

From reading these comments be gentle and firm with her. And recommend a therapist.

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Anonymous 2w
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Anonymous 2w

Send her my way

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

She just tells me about how her mom has a bush and that her dad loves it 💔

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

IM TRYING

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

why the hell does she know that

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

I DONT KNOWWWWW 🫩

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

what the actuall helll😵‍💫

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Anonymous replying to -> amethyst_popping_bottles 2w

I’ll talk with her about it LOL, but I think it’s more awkward than anything

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

I get that you only feel this is an awkward situation and hopefully you don’t have to go all the way but this is considered sexual harassment especially if you’ve already told her to stop.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Low-key concerned for your roommate, like hopefully her parents haven’t exposed her to more than just that

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 2w

For my sanity I’m hoping the situation is the roommate overheard something she shouldn’t have at home

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Anonymous replying to -> amethyst_popping_bottles 2w

Yeah maybe she’s trying to tell OP to dilute the weirdness of it but like girl thats for your therapist or best friend, not your college roommate

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 2w

Oh absolutely, especially since OP has been trying to stop her.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Amethyst is right. You feel pressured to talk with her about it. You’re a victim. You need to report it. It IS sexual harassment. Someone who wants to go on and on about weird sexual details surrounding their own parents can be a really dangerous person to be around. She could be testing the waters to go further and further before she wants you to watch some kind of weird incest p*rn or even try to SA you because she clearly doesn’t understand boundaries or normal sexual thoughts/behaviors.

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 2w

There is no gentleness in this. I would feel unsafe around this person. Someone like this doesn’t know what’s sexually appropriate. That’s scary. That’s not a safe environment to live in, and quite frankly, getting the roommate therapy is not their responsibility. I know that sounds rough but the objective should be for them to put their safety first and get away from the person who thinks talking about their mother’s vagina and how much their dad loves it 24/7 is normal. They need out.

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 2w

I understand where your thought process is and what you think may have happened to this roommate growing up, hence the speculation of needing a therapist. My first roommate (before I moved out) was sexually ab*used as a child and TOLD ME stories about it. The problem was, she had no idea it was sexual ab*use, even as an adult. I know it’s sad and no one should ever have to go through that but that’s not OP’s fault and I know from experience that it’s extremely uncomfortable to live with.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 2w

whats op?

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 2w

It is short for Original Poster

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